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Dream of have a crush, mom

I was in my parents house. My mom and I went next door to meet our new neighbor. It was a young attractive man who I had never seen before. He seemed to have a crush on me and in the dream I returned those feelings. After coming back home my family seemed upset with me liking this young man. Then from out of nowhere the butler from Downton Abbey, who in this dream is apparently our butler, murders him for what he says is the good of our family. I then have flash backs to this boy knowing and admiring me from afar in our childhood. It makes me very resentful of my family for having him killed and I begin to investigate further into his life to find out who he was and why my family considered him such a threat.

This dream was added to the dreams database first time 8 years ago on June 08, 2017

Dream Interpretation Analysis

Meaning of have a crush in a dream

To see someone you have a crush on in a dream is quite a common dream. The mind dreams of what the mind is longing for. The crush in your dreams symbolise something that is important for you, something that you want. If your crush is talking to you in a dream it means that you are looking for some way to communicate it to your crush that you are in love with them. If you see your crush in a dream from a distance, walking away from you, it means that you think your crush does not like you.


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Meaning of mom in a dream

Mother Dream Meaning sychological Meaning: The mother may symbolise the unconscious intuitive side of yourself. However, the mother symbol can take both positive or negative forms. She may appear as a kindly mother, grandmother or aunt or as a place such as a cave, church or garden. These images may represent the qualities of solicitude, growth, nourishment and fertility. The negative mother symbol may appear as a witch or a dragon and represents dark destructive tendencies that devours, seduces or poisons. Some people have problems freeing themselves from mother-attachment. This prevents the development of their individuality and inner self-dependence. Mystical Meaning: Most mystical traditions have the symbol of the Mother written into their legends and myths. At her most exalted she is the divine Great Mother at her most frightening she is the gorgon Medusa or the Sumerian goddess Lilith. Freud believed that the Greek myths of Oedipus and Electra symbolised psychological conditions. In the story Oedipus killed his farther and married his mother. Freud claimed that this represented a boy’s incestuous desire for his mother and jealousy towards his father. Similarly Electra desired her father and was jealous of her mother. A girl may therefore unconsciously believe that she has been castrated by her mother and is now an incomplete male. According to Freud this gives rise to ‘penis-envy’, which is one of the root causes of women’s feelings of inferiority.


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