Dream of child, died, mad, mother

I had a drea 3 nights ago , I was driving in a street were I lived when I was a child, it was my aunty's house, when I arrived there was a white van outside, next thing I'm in the hallway of the house andi could notice a big decoration of the property going on, as I walked past the first, I continued to the parlour room and I could see my wifes auntie sitting in the kitchen, she died last year about 5 months ago, I shouted winnie, alright winnie and she never replied which was typical of her as he was slightly deaf, I nudge her and said hi winniw, and she said hi john, she was looking the opposite way to the window which I found mad? the next thing I'm sitting on a sette in the parlour and winnie comes in and stands in front of me pouts her bum aganst me and bends towards the fire with a tape measure, so I said ill do that winnie, the next thing winnie was behind my back on the couch like a nutcracker soldier,stiif as a board? and I had a pen and paer in my hand, written on the paper was a row of unreadable words and the second row it had 2 unreadable words is Sylvia 2 more unreadable words miss my family? now Sylvia is my mother in law winnies sister in law, and they were ver y close and lived opposite each other