Dream of children

I walked into a dilapidated mansion and found three African American children living there along with their caregiver, a long lost friend of mine from high school. We were both very happy to see each other but I noticed that my friend seemed incredibly sad. The next day there was a party for me in the house but I didn't care about the party or the guests, only finding my friend. I finally found him sitting alone in the back of a car. I joined him and asked him why he was so sad. He said he wanted me to stay with him and the children because he loved me.