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Dream of kissed, mad, have a crush, mom, boyfriend, child, friends

Last night I dreamed that I cheated on my long term boyfriend with one of my male friends. (a little bit of back story is that I used to have a crush on this friend and my feelings for him almost ended my current relationship a few times). In my dream I felt as though I really loved this friend and I ended up staying at his house and he kissed me. We started making out and eventually he just said "I'm so lonely" as he pulled out his raging boner. Except his voice and face started to resemble my boyfriend . We ended up having unprotected sex and I was filled with desire but also fear and regret. First of all I went out and got some emergency contraceptive because I couldn't have a love child from this affair. Then all I could think about was how guilty I felt. I wanted to tell my boyfriend what had happened but I didn't know how. I saw my friends mom after and she got mad at me about "ruining her innocent boy" (his family is rather religious but I havent really met them). The rest of the dream was filled with anxiety and guilt and just feeling lost in general.

This dream was added to the dreams database first time 11 years ago on September 14, 2014

Dream Interpretation Analysis

Meaning of kissed in a dream

To dream that you see children kissing, denotes happy reunions in families and satisfactory work. To dream that you kiss your mother, you will be very successful in your enterprises, and be honored and beloved by your friends. To kiss a brother or sister, denotes much pleasure and good in your association. To kiss your sweetheart in the dark, denotes dangers and immoral engagements. To kiss her in the light, signifies honorable intentions occupy your mind always in connection with women. To kiss a strange woman, denotes loose morals and perverted integrity. To dream of kissing illicitly, denotes dangerous past-times. The indulgence of a low passion may bring a tragedy into well-thought-of homes. To see your rival kiss your sweetheart, you are in danger of losing her esteem. For married people to kiss each other, denotes that harmony is prized in the home life. To dream of kissing a person on the neck, denotes passionate inclinations and weak mastery of self. If you dream of kissing an enemy, you will make advance towards reconciliation with an angry friend. For a young woman to dream that some person sees her kiss her lover, indicates that spiteful envy is entertained for her by a false friend. For her to see her lover kiss another, she will be disappointed in her hopes of marriage.


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Meaning of mad in a dream

To became mad in your dream is a sign for bad omen, dark spirits may come to you and bad things might happen. They say a mad dreamer is a mad man too. To dream of another mad man or woman shows you are afraid of him.


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Meaning of have a crush in a dream

To see someone you have a crush on in a dream is quite a common dream. The mind dreams of what the mind is longing for. The crush in your dreams symbolise something that is important for you, something that you want. If your crush is talking to you in a dream it means that you are looking for some way to communicate it to your crush that you are in love with them. If you see your crush in a dream from a distance, walking away from you, it means that you think your crush does not like you.


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Meaning of mom in a dream

Mother Dream Meaning sychological Meaning: The mother may symbolise the unconscious intuitive side of yourself. However, the mother symbol can take both positive or negative forms. She may appear as a kindly mother, grandmother or aunt or as a place such as a cave, church or garden. These images may represent the qualities of solicitude, growth, nourishment and fertility. The negative mother symbol may appear as a witch or a dragon and represents dark destructive tendencies that devours, seduces or poisons. Some people have problems freeing themselves from mother-attachment. This prevents the development of their individuality and inner self-dependence. Mystical Meaning: Most mystical traditions have the symbol of the Mother written into their legends and myths. At her most exalted she is the divine Great Mother at her most frightening she is the gorgon Medusa or the Sumerian goddess Lilith. Freud believed that the Greek myths of Oedipus and Electra symbolised psychological conditions. In the story Oedipus killed his farther and married his mother. Freud claimed that this represented a boy’s incestuous desire for his mother and jealousy towards his father. Similarly Electra desired her father and was jealous of her mother. A girl may therefore unconsciously believe that she has been castrated by her mother and is now an incomplete male. According to Freud this gives rise to ‘penis-envy’, which is one of the root causes of women’s feelings of inferiority.


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Meaning of boyfriend in a dream

Dreaming of your boyfriend, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him. Dreaming that your boyfriend is dead, indicates that something in your own Self that is no longer functional and is "dead". You are not being allowed to fully express yourself. It is also symbolic of your own relationship with that person. Perhaps you need to let go of this relationship. If your boyfriend is away and your dreams of him involve a lot of touching, signify how much you miss his presence and have him being nearby. The dream is telling you not to take the day to day things for granted. Learn to cherish the smaller things in life. Dreaming that your boyfriend tells you that he is gay or that he doesn't love your anymore, represents your own insecurities with the relationship. It may also mean that the relationship is moving to a new level to which you are expressing some anxiety and fears about the changing situation. You may feel left out it in his life or that you are unable to share in all his experiences. It boils down to trust and communication


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Meaning of child in a dream

Young power developing. Increase in the family. Young power developing. Increase in the family. Child kidnapped is a very common dream for young parents showing the love and caring you have for your child, the need to protect.


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Meaning of friends in a dream

Joy and consolation. Aspect of self ready for integration. To dream of friends being well and happy, denotes pleasant tidings of them, or you will soon see them or some of their relatives. To see your friend troubled and haggard, sickness or distress is upon them. To see your friends dark-colored, denotes unusual sickness or trouble to you or to them. To see them take the form of animals, signifies that enemies will separate you from your closest relations. To see your friend who dresses in somber colors in flaming red, foretells that unpleasant things will transpire, causing you anxiety if not loss, and that friends will be implicated. To dream you see a friend standing like a statue on a hill, denotes you will advance beyond present pursuits, but will retain former impressions of justice and knowledge, seeking these through every change. If the figure below be low, you will ignore your friends of former days in your future advancement. If it is on a plane or level with you, you will fail in your ambition to reach other spheres. If you seem to be going from it, you will force yourself to seek a change in spite of friendly ties or self-admonition. To dream you see a friend with a white cloth tied over his face, denotes that you will be injured by some person who will endeavor to keep up friendly relations with you. To dream that you are shaking hands with a person who has wronged you, and he is taking his departure and looks sad, foretells you will have differences with a close friend and alienation will perhaps follow. You are most assuredly nearing loss of some character.


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