Dream of mom
My Mom passes away in a car accident two years ago this coming Halloween. I keep having dreams that she is back, momentarily, but doesn't have much time to spend here. In my dream, she is not back from the dead, but rather just here again, and can't stay for long. In fact, in my dreams she is very much alive, and just like she used to be, like the death never occurred. Every single time I have a dream like this, she has very little time to spend with me, and seems like she makes everything else a priority. I want nothing more than to see her and spend time with her, but she doesn't seem to make it important and makes excuses about having prior commitments and doesn't have much interest in seeing me. I consistently set time aside for her, a whole day most of the time, and she either never shows up or forgets. I beg and I beg to spend time with her and she often says maybe she can fit me in later. I beg and I beg just to see her for a few minutes and she reluctantly says she only has a short time and then she has to go. In this last dream I had last night, she spent all of Christmas with my sister and her husband and their entire family, but didn't make time for me. She didn't even invite me to come along. It just didnt seem important to her. My sister bragged that she spent the last three days with my Mom, while I never once got to see her. So I again, ask her if there's any time we can spend together before she has to go, and she says she has to go into work, that she will talk to me later. Later on, he calls my sister again to hang out and never calls me...
Dream Interpretation Analysis
Meaning of mom in a dream
Mother Dream Meaning sychological Meaning: The mother may symbolise the unconscious intuitive side of yourself. However, the mother symbol can take both positive or negative forms. She may appear as a kindly mother, grandmother or aunt or as a place such as a cave, church or garden. These images may represent the qualities of solicitude, growth, nourishment and fertility. The negative mother symbol may appear as a witch or a dragon and represents dark destructive tendencies that devours, seduces or poisons. Some people have problems freeing themselves from mother-attachment. This prevents the development of their individuality and inner self-dependence. Mystical Meaning: Most mystical traditions have the symbol of the Mother written into their legends and myths. At her most exalted she is the divine Great Mother at her most frightening she is the gorgon Medusa or the Sumerian goddess Lilith. Freud believed that the Greek myths of Oedipus and Electra symbolised psychological conditions. In the story Oedipus killed his farther and married his mother. Freud claimed that this represented a boy’s incestuous desire for his mother and jealousy towards his father. Similarly Electra desired her father and was jealous of her mother. A girl may therefore unconsciously believe that she has been castrated by her mother and is now an incomplete male. According to Freud this gives rise to ‘penis-envy’, which is one of the root causes of women’s feelings of inferiority.
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