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Dream of boyfriend, cheating, falling, girlfriend, person, phone, woke up, woman

Okay. So, I'm currently in a relationship, but before this current relationship, i was dating a girl. (i'm bisexual btw) I dated her in October 2012, we broke up December 2012 ,yet i still stuck by her side until June 8, 2013, so 6 more months after the break up. She knew i was falling in with her, and i was always telling her about how i felt about her, but she was never the same back. I didn't take it as anything because throughout getting to know her, she was never the kind to express feelings. But anyways, I thought everything would fall together the longer i would "ride or die" for her, until May of 2013. That night, we were drinking and my good friend, her lil cousin, kept saying "my niggas a PIMP!" and you know, it didn't bother me, but later that night, i had a dream that she was cheating on me, and that she was rubbing it in my face!! I woke up and asked her, if there's anything going on with her that i should know so i won't be holding her back from moving on since we weren't exactly IN A RELATIONSHIP, she said no, but a month later, June 8, 2013, i found out she was in a relationship with someone else... Now in my CURRENT relationship now, I've so far, had 3 dreams that he was cheating on me. The first one was just like the dream i had with my ex girlfriend . My boyfriend was cheating on me, and was rubbing the fact that he cheating on me in my face. the 2nd one was just the same, except different setting, and girls. This time, i just had a dream that he had a thing for some older woman, he's not a poetry type of person in real life, but in my dream he's written poems about her in his phone, had pictures of this woman in his calender books, and in my dream he has said "oh it's no one" but when i went through his phone, he wrote that this woman was his Love, but she was his heartbreaker... ); His past relationships, were NEVER as serious as the relationship he has now with me. NEVER as in, 99% of his ex girlfriend s has cheated on him REPEATEDLY to the point where he did it back to them, yet he still stayed in the relationship for over at least one year.. Honestly, I trust him not to cheat on me, but his past relationship can really affect this current relationship. And after having 3 dreams of him cheating on me,.. i'm starting to get more and more insecure about myself, AND this relationship. ); Can someone PLEASE help me out so i don't think what happened in my last relationship with the girl, is gonna happen to this one? because i really don't want to loose THIS relationship, it's the BEST and the Most Sure Thing I've ever wanted.

This dream was added to the dreams database first time 12 years ago on September 14, 2013

Dream Interpretation Analysis

Meaning of boyfriend in a dream

Dreaming of your boyfriend, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him. Dreaming that your boyfriend is dead, indicates that something in your own Self that is no longer functional and is "dead". You are not being allowed to fully express yourself. It is also symbolic of your own relationship with that person. Perhaps you need to let go of this relationship. If your boyfriend is away and your dreams of him involve a lot of touching, signify how much you miss his presence and have him being nearby. The dream is telling you not to take the day to day things for granted. Learn to cherish the smaller things in life. Dreaming that your boyfriend tells you that he is gay or that he doesn't love your anymore, represents your own insecurities with the relationship. It may also mean that the relationship is moving to a new level to which you are expressing some anxiety and fears about the changing situation. You may feel left out it in his life or that you are unable to share in all his experiences. It boils down to trust and communication


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Meaning of cheating in a dream

Cheating, Infidelity Dreams Dreaming of infidelity and cheating can be among the most disturbing of dreams. If it’s your partner who is cheating, you may waken with feelings of betrayal and heartache. If it’s you that is doing the cheating, you may be left with feelings of confusion. Keep in mind that most dreams are symbolic, and a dream of cheating on someone, or being cheated on, usually represents a deeper need that should be addressed. Are you the one cheating? You may want to ask yourself what it is that you need from your partner that you are not getting in real life. Are you uncomfortable asking for your needs to be met, or is your partner unwilling, or unable, to meet them? Is there a lack of connection between the two of you; do you feel you’re drifting apart? Do you feel that you are missing out on something, or are your responsibilities overwhelming you, leaving you little time to nurture yourself? Are you cheating with someone you know? Are they someone you have fantasized about in real life? Yes, this could just be a wish fulfillment dream, but sex in dreams most often represents a symbolic connection. What are the qualities of the person you are having sex with? Are they qualities you would like to embody? If you dream that you are having an affair with someone who is artistic and playful, it may mean that it’s time for you to embrace your artistic, playful side. Is your partner cheating? There may be a chance that you are intuitively picking up on something going on between you and your partner, but remember that most often dreams are symbolic, so dreaming your partner is cheating on you doesn’t necessarily mean they are being unfaithful. You may be feeling a disconnection that needs to be healed, or that your partner is being unsupportive. The feeling of betrayal may be an indicator that you are feeling a loss, or a lack of connection, in your own life. You may be insecure, or fear being abandoned. Adultery dreams are a sign that something is missing from the dreamer’s life. So often, in real life, when someone seeks to have an affair, it’s simply to avoid a problem they don’t want to deal with. Dreaming of adultery is a warning that an underlying problem needs to be addressed. Remember that dreams are often catalysts for the healing process. Be honest with yourself about both your relationship with your partner and yourself, and let the healing begin.


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Meaning of falling in a dream

Dreams about falling are among the most common that people experience. This type of dream can symbolize various situations, one of which is a sense of lost control. It may reflect the dreamer's feeling that they lack control in certain areas of their life or a subconscious desire to let go and relinquish control.


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Meaning of girlfriend in a dream

Seeing your girlfriend in a dream, or even someone else girlfriend represents fear of commitment and worrying about the future. Seeing your girlfriend with another man indicates your emotions to her.


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Meaning of person in a dream

To see the same person again and again in your dream is a sign that someone from the world after is trying to get in contact with you and trying to tell you something. You must try to understand and follow his directions.


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Meaning of phone in a dream

Remote locations. Connection. Trying to reach someone or something. To dream of a telephone, foretells you will meet strangers who will harass and bewilder you in your affairs. For a woman to dream of talking over one, denotes she will have much jealous rivalry, but will overcome all evil influences. If she cannot hear well in conversing over one, she is threatened with evil gossip, and the loss of a lover. When you try to call the Police or 911 and you can't get them in your dream that means that people does not understand you. You often find yourself without the ability to express your self in such matter that people will actually know how do you feel.


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Meaning of woke up in a dream

When you wake up you actually see the life as they are, you are no longer closed in your concept. To wake up from the dream, you are really accepting and knowing who you are. We are all familiar with the situation called "dream". We sleep, we are in a kind of unconsciousness, disconnected from the reality around us. However, while we are "in" within the dream, we feel it as a real reality, and experience a great many emotions, thoughts and situations. When morning comes and we wake up we "sober up" and realize that everything that happened in the dream was not real, while the reality in our waking state is real. Similarly, a person who attains spiritual attainment feels that the world and physical reality were not real. The Kabbalists express this feeling in the words "we were like dreamers." In so doing they want to illustrate to us that the real reality into which man "awakens" after acquiring the spiritual senses, is the only one that exists while the physical reality in which we seem to live today, is but a temporary dream from which we are all to awaken.


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Meaning of woman in a dream

For a man to dream on a woman may show a few paths. A woman indicate mysteriousness and the unknown, as well as power. It may also show of destiny. Dreaming on a strange woman may be lack of sexual desires and frustration. For a woman to dream on another woman may indicates envy and enemy rising. A woman also shows the connection of an individual with the nature. To see a woman in your dream, represents nurturance, passivity, caring nature, and love. It refers to your own female aspects or your mother. Alternatively, a woman indicates temptation and guilt. If you know the woman, then it may reflect concerns and feelings you have about her. To see a group of women talking in your dream, refers to some gossip. To see a pregnant women in your dream, symbolizes abundant wealth. To see an old woman in your dream, indicates your concerns about aging and growing old. Alternatively, the old woman may be an archet


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