Dream of mother

A mysterious, attractive, young man appeared in my dreams - 4 times spread out within 2 years. He was the most handsome man i have ever seen. (Yet I've never seen him before). He always wore black clothes. So i was afraid he might be evil, but he was so kind to me and i felt so happy with him. Then we became in love, and in each dream he told me, "Just say when you’re ready and I'll take you away from here." (Real Life) - My mother and many others have told me it was a demon deceiving me by coming into my dreams. Since i am prone to see spirits. But I'm not sure what to believe.